VGC, I was vehemently against having a child. The vast harem that I had at my disposal was wildly disappointed, but I was steadfast for many years. Eventually, human instincts got the best of me, and my daughter came into this world. Thus ended the era of philandering, and an era of philanthropy began.
The first highlight of parenthood is how much it's changed my motivation. There were a couple of "scares" over the years, and each one motivated me to quickly get my life and affairs in order. I sold things, saved money, and generally tried to ensure the child would have proper care and a stable place to live. I even once prepared for military enlistment, but the prospective mother was kind enough to let me know that I was not the father. (Ouch...) Those little moments set me on positive paths of financial improvement that nothing else ever had. The official announcement had me focus, earn consecutive promotions at work, save every dime I could to buy my home, and generally ensure my daughter would have a comfortable life like I never had.
The second highlight is how little it changed my lightheartedness. I've always been a bit of a goofball, and I haven't stopped. She has to deal with me singing along to grocery store music, attempting to juggle produce, and downright smothering her with silly public affection like monkey-grooming and carrying her whenever I can. I've even started a gym routine so I can make sure she continues to get piggyback and shoulder rides as she gets heavier, and so I can carry her through (hopefully) my entire life.
Now, I know there are many folks who haven't had any kids, and I know there are positives to that as well.
I'm sure that if I were still childless, being responsible for me and only me would be a massive relief. I wouldn't have to worry about maintaining a house, and I could handle living in a tiny apartment again.
Whatever your situation, what have been the things you look upon with sincere satisfaction?
The first highlight of parenthood is how much it's changed my motivation. There were a couple of "scares" over the years, and each one motivated me to quickly get my life and affairs in order. I sold things, saved money, and generally tried to ensure the child would have proper care and a stable place to live. I even once prepared for military enlistment, but the prospective mother was kind enough to let me know that I was not the father. (Ouch...) Those little moments set me on positive paths of financial improvement that nothing else ever had. The official announcement had me focus, earn consecutive promotions at work, save every dime I could to buy my home, and generally ensure my daughter would have a comfortable life like I never had.
The second highlight is how little it changed my lightheartedness. I've always been a bit of a goofball, and I haven't stopped. She has to deal with me singing along to grocery store music, attempting to juggle produce, and downright smothering her with silly public affection like monkey-grooming and carrying her whenever I can. I've even started a gym routine so I can make sure she continues to get piggyback and shoulder rides as she gets heavier, and so I can carry her through (hopefully) my entire life.
Now, I know there are many folks who haven't had any kids, and I know there are positives to that as well.
I'm sure that if I were still childless, being responsible for me and only me would be a massive relief. I wouldn't have to worry about maintaining a house, and I could handle living in a tiny apartment again.
Whatever your situation, what have been the things you look upon with sincere satisfaction?
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