Raptor, I'm really surprised he didn't follow through to meet you! When we were together, that whole what, two weeks he stayed with me in my apartment - he seemed so very social. Walked with me everywhere, talked to nearly EVERY stranger, and I do remember him being actually gentlemanly with staying on his side to the road and gripping my hand every time a truck passed by.. not sure if that was more his fear of being closer to the truck or just being protective. But, when I broke up with him (after realizing I fell for a false persona and with him encouraging my bad habits of not eating to lose weight, otherwise known as anorexia I do believe!) he called my sister (not sure how he got her number) and talked to her for three hours - she claimed. Apparently, that conversation turned my family against me - he is a very manipulative, very charming person, and he won over my mom. After that, my family thought I was the most terrible person for kicking him to the curb.. much family drama ensued, but we're all in a good place now. Made us closer in the long run (thanks Timothy!) - but the oddest thing about it all, to me, was that he contacted me something like 3 years later, but ODDEST of all, he contacted my SISTER again two years after that! Uhh.. dude. Live your life and get out of the past, and really, don't randomly message people years later. It's creepy.
Anyway, I'm sorry he didn't visit you. I wonder if he really lived in Hawaii. That would explain the flaking out :/ hm. Other than all the other crap, he was a pretty entertaining guy, and pretended to be SO DUMB when he obviously wasn't haha he pretended not to know how to play Solitaire. C'mooon lol.