I know you probably don't care, but I'd like some input from an unbiased public. So who better than you guys?
My boyfriend is more abusive than affectionate. He constantly flicks my head and digs his finger nails into my wrist. And his fingernails are quite long. When we thumb wrestle he feels the need to hold my thumb down with all the force he has and count to one hundred. But there are times when he is affectionate, but it doesn't last long.
On top of that I have a serious crush on someone else. The problem is that guy doesn't seem to notice me. My friend gave me advice but I don't know if I should break up with my current boyfriend until I know 100% sure how this other guy feels about me. What should I do?
Yes, break up with him. Even if the other boy doesn't like you or even notice you.
Ummm, [SIZE="7"]GET OUT NOW![/SIZE] I cannot stress this enough. Don't wait to find out if some other guy has the same feelings for you. You are better off alone than with a prick like that. If you stay in a relationship like your current one for too long, you will lose sight of how a normal relationship should work. Then you will find yorself uncomfortable in a normal functioning relationship because it's not "normal" compared to what you are used to. Trust me on this. I see it all the time. Leave him now! And make as many people aware of the situation as possible to gain extra support. Who knows how he'll handle it, and any extra support for you will be a plus.
He said that if we ever broke up, we could still be friends. The reason I'm reluctant to break up with him is I still have feelings for him. And he treats everyone like that. So I know it's not just me. But I am seriously considering breaking up now.
Well, your feelings for him can't be all too strong if you are already considering someone else. Think about what you're saying. Love is a game, but you should never play against yourself.
I can give no more advice on this subject.
You wouldn't want him as a friend.
I think I will. But I'm not exactly sure. I mean, I think I still might have feelings for my boyfriend, David. From what I gather he doesn't even know how to be affectionate.
I agree. Listen to all the above posts. BREAK UP WITH HIM. Abuse like that isn't worth it. I mean even if it isn't JUST you... that's no excuse. He clearly has a problem.
Psh, can't take a little abuse? No man is going to want to be with you if he can't hit you whenever he wants. I think you should stay with him and endure the pain that he inflicts upon you as way to build character and better prepare you for the world ahead.
I'll say what has already been said.
Abuse builds character.
But seriously, dump his ass and get yourself a real man.
I say bang the guy your with now. If that doesnt mellow him out, then its your fault for being a lousy woman and you deserve what you get.
Get out get out get out get out get out.
Seriously, dump him tonight. Change is good. You're better off with someone who actually appreciates you.
asl?
I too endorse this notion, if only for the prospect of kinky hawt zeta/aida buttsecks.
enjoy your aids
loliaids?
You've gotten all the good advice you can get.
Just, ignore the retarded ones.
:D
HAVE SEX WITH HIM. SEX=LOVE. IF YOU DONT BANG HIM ITS YOUR OWN FAULT IF HE HITS YOU. YOu DESERVE IT FOR NOT MAKING HIM A SANDWICH.
LoS, as if you'd ever get anything if you hit the gal. -_-'
hit them hard enough to knock them out and you get anything you want.
No, that's dogs.
Gals will go the police.
No... there's a lot out there who won't. Especially the ones with bad childhoods and abusive fathers.
And thus they're inclined to take further abuse?
Yes because they don't know any different. Refer back to Boner's post for reasoning. Like him, I've seen it in more than a few cases.
Doesn't make it right, tho.
Right? :o
Good is a very relative thing.
Break up. Give yourself a couple months to think over and take in everything you've learned from the previous relationship. Then, after things have slowed down, start seeing other guys, ones who are actually interested and care about you.
[quote]Then, after things have slowed down, start seeing other guys, ones who are actually interested and care about you.
:)
...
Yeah, okay, I'll stop acting weird now.
Idk, I always thought it was funny how humans(lol furry logic) are always so inclined to have to be with a mate. Singleness has it's advantages too.
That's easy for you to say. YOU HAVE YOUR EGGROLLS!!!!1111oneoneone
lol. Aesthetic costed me over 1,000 dollars and we didn't even last a year.
I broke up with him at lunch today. He didn't care. This morning I was all depressed because I had made up my mind to break up with him, and he didn't notice. He didn't ask "how was your weekend?" Or "How are you feeling?" Or anything like that. He just said, "Wanna see something funny?" And pulled out his DS. I didn't even find it funny.
Another thing I found out is that the guy I like has known for a while and said too bad for her because I'm very picky about who I date. But I suppose it doesn't matter. But now I'm all by myself and have no date for my friends party.
Better then going out with this guy again.
He was never worth it.
It wasn't the DS. It was the game, or part of the game. The new Starfox game. I didn't think it funny at all, but he didn't notice.
Ah. What a fag.
How about this: you dump this guy, tell him he was insensitive and abusive, and then either:
a) ask your friend to set you up with someone (temporarily, just for fun)
or
b) sit at home and masturbate.
Either will make you feel better.
If you havent had sex after spending a thousand dollars, its time to get a new girl.
That's what women like.
You, well, maybe not you lol, don't want those women anyways. So there's nothing frustrating aobut it.
Judge is right, parties are not always meant for dates...
Go play around a little first. :)
I'm lonely. :(
Good.
You're mean. I might go cry now.
Hey, Aida. Want to go out with me to the smoothie shop? :love:
Totally. :)
So, like, we're a thing? :confused:
Might as well be. :)
Really it's not. He was so insensitive.
You're still in school. your relationships are null.
You never know anymore. Some people who were dating in high school really love each other and get married. But that won't happen with me and David. But at least we're still friends. And now that we're broken up he doesn't do that stuff anymore... Suspicious yes?
Or maybe he realised he was an *******?
lol nah
seconded
Yeah, anything before 18, possibly 17, is garbage. Or will end in a divorce most likely if you take it that far.
either that, or you'll just end up miserable and hating every moment of your life while you serve him hand in foot since he broke your will years ago
*** i wish i could get a relationship like that
**** yeah, that would be sweet
Perhaps. But still you never know with some people. But I know that I'm in the majority, but still for some people it does happen. If you want a good example of times it doesn't, my grandma and grandpa hate each other. They got married when my Grandma was 16. She hates him with a passion, but so does everyone.
[quote=Dexter]lol. Aesthetic costed me over 1,000 dollars and we didn't even last a year.
lol. Dexter ****ed with my emotions and we didn't even get to have sex.
I like where this thread seems to be suddenly going.
As do I.
Please, Aesthetic, continue.
sry, library time is up. maybe later, yeah?
You'll have to wait for an answer. Library time is up.
MOVIN' IN ON THE REBOUND LOL
Protip: Don't break her bed.
I want drama! :mad:
Too bad, I'll be too busy mackin' your ex to get dramatic.
/r/ pix
Use the webcam, Lordy! Make a superior video than my own!
I would, but I'm uncomfortable in knowing that someone is fapping to something with me in it.:/
I'm fapping to your avatar.
OH SHI-
*Faps at 6/4 time*
huh, i've never listened to music while fapping, but i bet i;'d do it to the rhythm:/
you gotta put a tag team scene with you and me pounding iris. or like, both of them going on one of us, and hte other of us just sitting there fapping,
what can i do?
be posting on vgc in the background about what a spectacular display of awesomeness is going on, and about how you're going to go fap while thinking about it because you have a crippling fear of social rejection, despite that if you asked we'd probably let you in , you ****ing loser
so good job, because you were afriad of rejection, now you dont get to help me and vamp close their pools, if you know what i mean
[quote]because you have a crippling fear of social rejection,
Gonna have to find a new part for me; I don't fit the bill.
dont try to act tough on the itnernet
you know you've never been able to approach a vagooooo evre since it killed your maw and paw.
what I thought my parents were killed by a ponos :(
nope. t'was an axewound that did them in.
lol works in two ways
dude, you gotta finish this, or let me read whats already done:(
dreaaaams are my reeealityyyy ¯\(°_o)/¯
hahaha no.
i mean, i dont remember seeing all of you, but the face is a no go. Fate's acceptible as a one time thing, but i'd never be able to deal with her personality.
Its more about the joy of causing you pain than the sex, really.
No, I have a pretty face actually. Not only is it free of zits, I also don't have a huge forehead! :)
As for the pain part, best of luck! I don't know if you're going to try to hurt my psyche or uterus with a stupid story, but it won't work regardless.
Females- Now with standards!
Uh, no. Its sort of angular and mannish. not in a heavy way, really. its just not femenine.
and I dont really care what you think. thats like saying playing a ww2 sim means you hte nazis. maybe you just want to some krauts.
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN: WE'VE CURED VGC OF AIDS, STOP POSTING IN A THREAD STARTED BY AIDS.
There goes the neighborhood.
I like when people judge their own looks positively even though it's entirely subjective.
In fact, I like when people state their opinions on subjective matters as fact.
Oh wait, nevermind, I hate it.
Wait, what are you talking about exactly?
Timothy Michael Wayne Hartunian! Let your VGC followers figure things out on their own. They're good with their imagination. Besides, with my sarcasm spiced with truth, even you should be able to figure out what I mean. I mean, you just know me so well, dearest.
MATTIEKINS WHERE ART THOU we must produce this sex tape and rise above the makeout vid and britney's fake sex tape so get on it!
Now that's a hot tamale
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Those racecar drivers sure have good taste!
They sure do!
Yessiree!
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