Well, to most people, moving away to a different city from where you live isn't a big deal. But to me it is. I'm moving away this weekend to a totally different city after living 10 years in this one city! I had my whole life there. My school, my friends, EVERYTHING! Then, all of a sudden, I'm told we have to move to a different city because of my dad's job, and I am left miserable...
Well, as a child, I've lived in 8 different houses leading up to this one, in 6 different cities. So personally, I just got used to it. It's not that big of a deal, because you'll adapt eventually.
But in response to the title, when my world is coming out, I resort to serial homicide to cheer me up. You should try it.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to The Judge again.
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Lmao, serial homicide. Hmmm..... Maybe I should try it, lol.
[quote=Thread Name]What to do when you feel your world crashing down on you?
Fap....seconds later I feel much better. :)
I had the same problem but luckly I just move like 1 1/2 a mile away from my old school and friend's house so I can still visit them.
I have to go to a new school starting this September but good thing my cousion goes there so I'll hang with her for awhile till I can get some new people to hang out with.
omg i know how that feel, except i've lived in Japan for 11 years, and all of a sudden i had to move to whole ****ing different country! ****ing owned
Much like Dark, I've lived in countless places, though mostly in California. Then we fukken moved to Washington. I vent my aggression on cats.
hey thnx! Mr. Nintendo, i have to spread my rep before i can give u another one!
I CAN'T ****ING SPELL THE WORD "YOU"!
Back in the day, it'd be a thing called coke to cheer me up.
Now, I invite my brother to have a boxing match with me, ;)
[quote]NeXidala agrees:..What's "fap" mean?
masturbate?
In thirteen years I've lived in ten different houses. I don't count the past three years or so because I haven't had a home for a while.
Read the full story [url=http://www.gamingforce.com/forums/journal.php?action=view&amount=single&userid=6422&entryid=8285]here[/url]. It's not too hard to get used to it.
Mr N we all know youd be too scared to do any hard drugs.
Ive only moved like 4 times. 2 times when i was too young to remember then twice when first I moved to VA then another when I moved about 5 miles away the second time.
Oh, and let's also mention that I've lived in England, Germany, America, France and nowhere. Owned.
Fix'd happy?
Never appease anyone for their sake. Period. Only be nice to people if it would benefit you somehow.
I love you, Judge! You Rock! Never de-mod me again!
My world hasn't "crashed down around me" in years, but back then I would just become a recluse and do nothing other than listen to music.
Now I just do that because I have nothing better to do :cookie:
Anywho, I can relate to the moving thing. My dad's job always had as moving, luckily it was when I was young though, so I was able to move on fairly quickly. So it would suck to move to your age. But, chances are you'll meet some more friends eventually, and who knows, it could turn out a lot better than you imagined.
On the other hand, you could be irreparably damaged by such a dramatic change.
*twitch* GRAGAHGLE *twitch*
That too... but you usually don't want to be a cynic about these things. It just makes it worse.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbArvIqZzkI
I moved to the middle of nowhere, so I kinda know what it's like. Oh, and when my world crashes down around me, I usually listen to some heavy metal to drown out all of the noise around me. I might just follow The Judges advice, though...
Sanaxis, what state did you move to when you refer to "the middle of nowhere"?
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I guess I'll start listening to real lloud music and forget about everything else for a while.
Sleep.
Perfect. Metal to sooth the soul. I'll need a lot of that..........
No, hit ME up on AIM, I'll send you Death Metal. It's less melodic, and more harsh. It's very similar, though.
Hit us both up if you want to do it right, however. As it was Vamp who got me into good black metal. He'll treat you right.
EDIT: Melodic = Atmospheric.
Some, not all. A lot of it is very harsh.
[quote=sniper]Much like Dark, I've lived in countless places, though mostly in California. Then we fukken moved to Washington. I vent my aggression on cats.
That pretty much sums up my moving experience.
Except we ended up in Idaho somehow. :(
[quote=NeXidala]Guessing, you don't like Idaho that much?
It's so-so. It's fairly dull though.
It's on that whole country scene right?
Alcohol or weed and either kids movies or video games.
When my world is being enveloped in a wave of anguish, I tend to take it out on the first person to cross me. Don't fukken cross me.
Use the internet to figure out what you listen to.
Guess I don't listen to them then.
It cracked me up when you did it.
But yeah, I always noticed that too.
Man, I wish I had set that trend. I'd feel dang cool right now.
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Uh... I've never moved, but I've switched schools a few times. I remember that was harsh for, like, a couple weeks. My parents have been talking about moving very soon, though, and I don't want to right in the middle of high school. So I told them I'd stay at friends houses and... camp, or something, for my senior year if I had to just to stick around.
Heh, this place isn't that great, either(it's often referred to as "Hell"), but... I guess I'm not ready to leave it yet. A few loose ends to tie up, first.
no u
owned
I never really thought about it before.
But I think my parents moving to a different state where I had to get used to a whole new routine and get a new room, go to a new school and make new friends, learn about a whole new neighborhood and get used to a new climate...
Would be the coolest and most ineresting thing to ever happen to me.
Sometimes I think the same thing. For instance, my parents were considering moving to this farmland out on a completely flat island near here. I figured I'd spend a lot of time shooting these massive rodents with a .22 and getting about 10 bucks for each pelt(btw this still sounds awesome to me), and boating around. It was an alright place but it'd get boring after a while.
Have the friends up. Shoot stuff. Sit around on the dock. rinse, repeat
Not any time soon. :)
You must first be cleansed of your sins.
Thanks, I'm glad so many people have confidence in me.
[Quote=Slade]You must first be cleansed of your sins.
How would I do that?
Start with blood. Lots and lots of blood.
THE BLOOD OF VIIIIIRRRRRRGIIINNSSSS
Note: Remember, The Judge no longer counts.
Darkness Advanced.
Get used to it! :cookie:
Does she ever SHUT UP?
WHERE'S MY VIRGIN BLOOD
WHAT IS LOVE?
I have no idea. Lust is all that matters to me.
EDIT: Holy f[COLOR="black"]u[/COLOR]ck did we get another member?
Yeah, I'm still in school. Well, school starts in like 3 or 4 weeks....Man I'm bummed. Hope to make a busload of friends lol.
I always think it's funny when girls in general talk about "cute" guys. Cause most of the time they are huge faggots :D
Probably just as bad as when guys talk about hot chicks, but eh.
........Most people enjoy being social with the opposite gender, you know.
Escpecially rapists and serial killers:jesse:
gross gross gross
I never realized Nexi was so perverted.
sick sick sick
Just... no.:(
It's not like I've slept with guys yet.........[spoiler]Unlike you Kanashuri[/spoiler]
Yeah...me neither.
I hope you haven't Judge.......You better have not!
Why? What are you gonna do about it?
I don't know....nothing I guess....
Durn tootin
Anyways, enough!
Mr.N you know what I meant. I think everyone did.
That term is better left off in the 90's and below.
Stop telling me how to talk Mr.N. I don't tell you how to talk. And I'm sorry if I don't say " I haven't fucked guys until we were sweating, yet." Geez!
You can stop now.
Get out.
I have no idea why your getting mad at me.
You make it sound like I was telling you to edit your post or something.
Both of you shut the f[COLOR="black"]u[/COLOR]ck up and stop talking like this is AIM.
So, Vamp, sup?
Because he believes whatever he says is right. And because his vocabulary in sexual terms probably only consists of things like:
-bang her!
-fuck her 'till she drops!
-massive boner
-orgy
Things like that.
I just now saw this thread of yours. Naturally it has gotten way off topic. But, I'd still like to give an on topic reply.
I was born in Illinois. Between the ages of 1 and 4, I lived in 3 different homes. By the time I was age 3, my mother was already on her second husband. At the age of 4, we moved to Texas. I ended up living there until I graduated from high school. The years that I lived in Texas, I moved a total of 9 times. Maybe even more. In the third grade, I attended 3 different schools. At age 9, my mother remarried....AGAIN!
Finally, at about the age of 11, I lived in the same town until I graduated. But, we lived in 3 different houses. When I was 17, my mother divorced my second step-father and moved to Indiana and remarried a final time. I stayed with my second step-father until I graduated. I had siblings that he was father to and they also stayed with him. I looked up to him as I do my natural father and we had a strong bond. I still keep in touch with him to this day.
Anyway, before I go off on too much of a tangent, I ended up moving back to Chicago to live with my biological father and find a decent job. I have been in this house with him since '98. I even bought half the house from him because he is no longer able to work and could no longer afford a full mortgage. So, it looks like I'll be here for quite a while.
My whole life I have known nothing but meeting new people and making new friends, only to have friendships severed due to moving. It's not fun, but you get used to it. I know it doesn't seem fair. But, there are many life lessons to be gained. You will find out who your true friends are. You never loose contact with true friends. If you completely loose contact, then there were probably other reasons for you being acquainted with them. And they probably weren't good ones.
Having to move because of your father's job will help you adapt to changes in life that are out of your control. And trust me, life is full of such changes. I know it's easy to get depressed over it, but try not to take out any aggression on your parents or give them a hard time about it. Some day you may be married with kids of your own and be faced with a similar situation. Sometimes you have to do what's best. Even if it means an uncomfortable change in the short term. You are still young. You will make new friends. It won't be as bad as it seems right now.
But, no matter where you move, you will always have us crazy bastards here at VGC. You simply can't escape us!
Heh, I got a laugh out of that.
I like how someone decided to replace Illinois with Hong Kong in my post. Whoever did that is a total prick. A funny prick, but a prick nonetheless!
That would be me. I was thinking Greenland at first, but Hong Kong seemed better.
Wow, thanks to Opeth's and everyone else's post about moving so much my situation doesn't seem as bad anymore! Thanks guys! And, I would never take out any aggression on my parents for moving because I know it's for the best.
TAKE THAT *****ES
Look at all the good DA can do when we work together toward the greater goo-FAGGOT'D
No, no, no. I was serious about how DA(...mainly Opeth) was like "HAY ITS NOT SO BAD" and then you were like "YA UR RIGHT" and therefore we helped you. That's kind of like working towards the greater good.
I was also serious about how it sounded gay for me to say all the stuff above in a cheesy manner. So, yeah we helped, and yes, it does sound faggy for me to recognize the fact that we helped.
Haha, I find it funny how I can ramble and not get my point across at all. Happens a lot. :/
Yes, at the heart of both posts was good intent.
lol girls
Welcome to DA. That probably happens a lot, but I figured this was a "real" enough situation that I should just say, "yeah, I was joking."
whoah... like...first time ive taken a thread seriously here....huh
[quote=NeXidala]Wow, thanks to Opeth's and everyone else's post about moving so much my situation doesn't seem as bad anymore! Thanks guys! And, I would never take out any aggression on my parents for moving because I know it's for the best.
moving is like beating the hell out of your social life
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Nex, I have something that will reassure you and make you feel totally better about moving:
Everyone dies. Think of death as a release and a new beginning, not an end. The fact that your method of transportation will end up crashing halfway through the trip and you will perish in the flames (even if you're on foot) is something to look forward to!
I've lived in the house I'm currently in my entire life! :D
EDIT:: Nex, yeah I love it. It's really easygoing and I have lots of friends around the neighborhood to hang out with, so it's pretty awesome. I would really really hate to move.
It's funny. I never really ***** about not having a home, because even if I did I'd never be around to enjoy it anyway.
Meh, sometimes I totally wish I didn't have a steady home. It'd be a lot more exciting to move around more. Even *GASP* live outside this country?
But that's just the candy-coated side of it. Leaving a couple of good friends I have here would be hard as hell.
[quote=NeXidala]Why not? What if you lived in, let's say, an apartment with your best friend, who you always find yourself laughing with. Not only that, but he/she is not the type of person to screw up life, and you enjoy being with that person. Also, where you live, you would have a lot of friends that are always there for you, and lots of places to go out and do things. Would you enjoy it then?
I pretty much do already, seeing as I live at boarding school most of the year and I was in a room with Dread last term. And next term, too. RESULT: We laugh at everyone like the elitists we are. And we get no work done. And we regularly get into shit.
It'd be nice to not have to scrounge for somewhere to live every single time I get out of school though... My mother's never at home (and she lives in France anyway), and my brother doesn't live in London anymore so it's a ***** tracking him down. Oh well, I can give it another two years, I guess, but for the sake of my teen years I'm still feeling pretty down about it right now.
This is why I never want kids.
Meh, I've only really got about 2 friends worth missing in the long run. And I can definitely imagine losing contact with even them. Things change, people meet new people. Heck, it's been about 3 months since I contacted one of my friends with whom I used to be really close. And I know if I never talked to him again I'd be just fine.
spoilers: Klarth adopts a young Nigerian boy.
Yeah, we were wealthy... The place in France used to be just a holiday home, and my parents picked it up in 1991. After we lost our home in 2003 we moved down there permanently, and until this time last year I could rely on it being a home base when I wasn't at school - I'd just fly down outside of term and spend a while there with my mother. And thaaaaat was when she ran off with some CRAZY RICH guy and now she spends most of her time in Brazil and Argentina and Uruguay and Chile and Paraguay and Florida and Puerto Rico and Mexico and occasionally the USA. I don't see too much of her anymore, but thankfully the guy she's with is paying my school fees and all the bills.
I'm fifteen now, so I legally can't work until September, and I kind of doubt I'd be earning enough to support getting my own place. I've got a plan to ask my mother about this sort of thing on my sixteenth birthday, though...
Oh, so your mom is living all over the place I see. Can't you live in your home in France without your mom being there?
[quote=NeXidala]Oh, so your mom is living all over the place I see. Can't you live in your home in France without your mom being there?
Heh, I'd love to, but the main problems are that she'd lose her shit and totally forbid it, we don't have a phone line down there, we're half an hour from the nearest town and I can't drive, and I'd be horrifyingly lonely. :(
Kinda sad right now that I'm being kicked out of where I'm living right now very soon, and I'm gonna have to start hunting for somewhere to live - Some girl my brother knows is offering to let me stay for a week or two, but for the last fortnight of the summer I'm gonna have to do some serious scrounging.
Huh, I figure if I was in that situation I'd just be really nice to everyone so maybe they'd let me stay at their place for a while. You could work for someone in exchange for staying with them, too, but that doesn't sound especially nice I know. Do computer stuff for them, maybe.
My tr00 friends are geeks. They all tend to be pretty computer literate, sadly. :(
[quote=NeXidala]
Why are they kicking you out? That's not cool....
My brother's living with a guy he set up a webdesign firm with, and I'm meant to be crashing here for the summer considering I have nowhere else to go. His business partner's being a cock and he wants me out, for the sole reason that I'm "using electricity". :/ He doesn't even pay the bills anyway.
Well, tomorrow I'm heading off to my uncle's place for two weeks or so, then I'm gonna see if I can stay at Dreadnought's house for a while.
Ever went into the Member Picture thread?
I remember they had a pic together.
Well I hope the people dont ****ing suck where you live, cause they do in cali. Almost all of them anyways.
Sort of, theres this big conspiracy going on right now. Really. I just hate people.
You should be more apathetic.
[spoiler]lolololololololololol[/spoiler]
Can I still tell them they suck? What I do! :(
Sure, go ahead. What I do! :(
Uhhh what? What I do! :(
idk What I do! :(
I hate What I do! :(
I hate EveryThiNg All the timE KNow what I mEaN?
ya i sumtimes cut a bit to make da presaue go a way.
Is he talking to me? What I do! :(