Beating women :)

What's your view on the act and the men/women who do it?

Well I dont do it. But if a women hit me I dont follow that bogus rule of "you cant hit girls!!1!!1!". I would deliver equal force if I saw it fit. Especially if the women hit me unprovoked, like many a happy slapping chavette.

From my vast experince of beating women, children and the disabled it seems unprovoked attack from females on males arent seen as negatively as a provoked, or even justified attack, from a male onto a female.

Well some woman activist keep talking crap about equal rights as men but I'd treat them like any other human and hit them back.

I just plain don't believe men should hit women, period. If it was a life or death situation (as in a violent struggle), maybe, but unless the lady is 400 pounds and 6'1" and/or armed with a weapon, there should'nt be much of a problem there.

I've never hit my girlfriend, but she has tried to get me to do it. She has provoked me and shouted at me to hit her, so I pushed her away from me.

I don't think it's necessary, ever. I think there is always a better solution than violence, when it comes to personal relationships.

I don't think violence should be relative to gender, but rather, situation. I should completely expect to get hit if I go around hitting others first. It's only logical, and fair, I suppose.

Like Miso said it depends on the situation.
If I was being attacked and yelled at by a woman I would probably try to resist since my morals wouldn't allow me to hit her but then I would only be pushed so far that I would act on impusle and strike back.

I dont think its right to hit people who are obviously weaker than you, or who cannot defend themselves. If they happen to have a vagina, then fine, they dont get hit. The one exception is in self defense, but here again, I would go with the minimum force required. If a group of female chavs come up to me and start slapping me, I'll just push them away. If one takes out a knife, ***** is gonna lose some teeth.

I agree with LoS. If a toddler starts gnawing at your hand for whatever reason, are you going to pop him in the face as hard as you can? If the person's much weaker than you, you ought to use less force. Maybe shoving some one away or something of the sort is more necessary than dropkicking your wife for slapping you across the face.

Sadly, a lot of people will hit back, regardless of whether or not they provoked the person and deserved it. Domestic abuse really isn't funny.

at least raptor's consistent

I think Woman often use hitting as a way to flirt... my ex did that alot.. which was annoying, having bruises... but just becuase they don't have the testosterone, and aren't has strong as some, or most men, doesn't mean they're much diffurent... they're still humans...

[quote=Iris]I agree with LoS.

Whoa, what the hell was that?

[quote=Master of All Things Factual]Fun Fact: Women can't be strong. Every single one of them is weak and unable to defend themselves in any way, shape, or form.

Like tiny little kittens really, only sometimes you want to kill them.

Man who hits women = Man with small penis

watch more porn.

I'm sure this has been said so far, but I haven't read the thread:

Only in self-defense, at which point I'll just subdue her, not knock her out (unless that's what it takes). I don't think men should ever hit women (Unless, you know, they're really tough women, like those iron maidens int he muscle shows, but who marries one of them anyways?).

Thats why stick with my system. It lets you smack the hell out of girls if they can fight back, while at the same time protecting the ones that need it.

I'm on the "it shouldn't be ok to hit, regardless of gender" boat. Self-defense is a different matter, but whoever initiates the fighting should get the punishment, regardless of gender. It's the other path of equality that so many people seem to forget. Most people go towards "OMG IF DEY WANT EQUALITY DEN I SHOOD HIT WOMEN" at first.

[quote=Iris]I agree with LoS. If a toddler starts gnawing at your hand for whatever reason, are you going to pop him in the face as hard as you can?

Are you joking? Of course I would. I hate children.

Beating women is for the weak (OLL SEAN FURY!!!!!1).

If they were aware of what they were doing and defense was necessary, I would hit anyone.

Actually, it really shouldn't matter the gender. If you need to defend yourself, you should at least have enough self control to keep from severely injuring some one if they don't pose a large threat.

Funfact: You are not a strong woman.

If a woman hit me, I wouldn't hit back. I'd just shove her away.

Guys, it's never okay to hit women, because they're weaker than you! Unless of course they want to join the military, police force or become a fire fighter, THEN they are just as equal and capable as you. But even then, it's still not okay to hit them! So don't hit them ever, under any circumstance. [COLOR="DimGray"]Double standards suck..[/COLOR]

See this is what I don't get, the whole "you cant hit them cos they are weaker". I remember when I was little girls would sometimes hit boys and say "you cant hit back because we're girls". If a girl hits you first this silly little rule shouldnt stop you giving her equal force.

I agree that no matter what gender someone is you shouldn't hit them, but if self-defense is necasary it's a different story. I also don't think it's right to hit someone weaker or defensless. It's just not right. If provoked, I would just push them back, and walk away.

[Quote=Vampiro]Fun Fact: Women can't be strong. Every single one of them is weak and unable to defend themselves in any way, shape, or form.
I believe that women can be just as strong as men.
[Quote=Bebop]little girls would sometimes hit boys and say "you cant hit back because we're girls". If a girl hits you first this silly little rule shouldnt stop you giving her equal force.
I agree that if hit first, that person should be able to hit with equal force, but I'm against uneeded violence.

The whole "women are weaker" argument is stupid. That's no reason to not hit a woman. With that logic, if another man who's weaker starts beating up on you you're supposed to take it?

[Quote=Raptor]Try this maneuver on some deranged ***** throwing table lamps and toasters at you, and see how long your head remains intact when you start walking away.
Like I said before, if self-defense was needed then by all means I would hit away. I wouldn't let someone beat on me. I would fight back, but if they were just yelling, and acting like an idiot, I would walk away, so it didn't get out of hand.

Not all women are weaker then men. But ate the same time any guy who hits a woman in a "non-life-or-death" situation is a total biatch.

This argument is weird. Since when has "hitting a woman" been about flirty little punches or similar trivium, or anything other than full-on domestic abuse?

Since bebop was a poor oppressed white male.

Well, clearly if a girl hits you in a flirty/random type context you grab her fists and wrestle/pin her arms so she can't hit you. This also DEMOSNTRATES YOUR MANLY STRENGTH OVER WEAK WOMEN.

^ And some girls think that's hawt.

Personally, I make it a point to not hit women. I've had relationships where the girl wanted me to throw her down and hurt her, and I just didn't want to at all. There are a ton of factors in that one, though, like how she wanted me to hit her because she honestly felt she needed to be punished for something or other. And that's just kind of scary.

About 99% of the time I've been hit by a girl, it was in a flirtatious manner, in response to which I'd act accordingly. The other times I'd just take it because she really needed an outlet and it didn't bother me at all. But that has always in the chest/arms. If a woman hit me in the face, I'd definitely be stunned, and if I wasn't knocked off balance I'd probably instinctually take a swing.

And then there's the .2% of the time that I get hit or kicked in the crotch... Well then there's nothing I can do except lie down on the ground and hope I lose conciousness.

[COLOR="Yellow"]I would never hit a woman, unless she's coming at me with a knife or threatening my life somehow. I'm not "following any rules", it just doesn't feel right, and usually a fight or argument against a woman can be easily avoided without violence i've found. I feel the same way about hitting kids, animals or british men.[/COLOR]

It all depends on the situation, I think. Generally, I don't think its right for a man to beat a woman (or vice-versa, for those of you who think me a sexist) without provokation. Like Iris said, if a baby is gnawing at your hand, you wouldn't punch him in the face. It all depends on who started it, who did what, and who is weaker or stronger.

Well now you know. Only if they were big enough to handle themselves or if I had to.

If she gives me lip. Thats a whoopin'

I wouldn't hit a woman unless my life depended on it. Men tend not to hit women because they feel as if women can't defend themselves, even though a lot of them carry pepper spray or something similar. Even if they didn't, they could yell help and people will come to her aid.

Woman hits Man: "u go girl!!1"
Man hits Woman: "omg noes u cnt hit womenz!!1"

I mean, at school, a girl scratched me in the face for no reason. (With nails as well, ouch.) I was just sitting down, and she walks up and scrapes away, without any good reason at all. (Except that she was a chav.) All of my friends were telling me not to do anything, because of the 'rules of fighting'.

If a woman stuck a knife out, or something similar I wouldn't see much choice. So I'd have to do something to defend myself.

What do you say to a woman with 2 black eyes?


Nothing. You told her twice already ;-*


True story

When I was little my Dad said/beat he'd beat the sh[SIZE=2]i[/SIZE]t out of me if I laid violent hands on a female.

So I would never beat women.

Well, yea, I don't go around decking girls in the face. I usuallly don't ever get girls ****ed enough to the point where they would start being violent.

Not even a question, a guy hits a woman in front of me no matter the circumstances and I guarantee I will be busting his ****ing *** in no time flat.

Last fight I got into was actually a few years ago over the exact question being raised. A guy threw his girlfriend down at a party, into a car and she landed on the pavement. I was passed the **** out, others awoke me, I went out to him, didn't even hesitate picking the SOB up by the throat throwing him into the cement and breaking several of his bones.

I have 5 sisters, one of them being with many abusive pricks. I can remember when I was younger going with my parents to pick her up out of an alley, missing chunks of hair, bleeding, teeth missing. Experience like that goes a long way, hitting a woman IMO is never, never acceptable. I will defend woman against guys at all costs, I have on more than one occassion ;)

My 2 cents, take it or leave it...

No Im saying would you do anything if the chick beat the **** out of the guy who hit her?

I would never hit a woman. I would only hit a woman if she were to keep attacking me, or try to come at me with a weapon. Other then that I really don't see it fit to hit any woman.

[quote=GRIM]
I have 5 sisters, one of them being with many abusive pricks. I can remember when I was younger going with my parents to pick her up out of an alley, missing chunks of hair, bleeding, teeth missing. Experience like that goes a long way, hitting a woman IMO is never, never acceptable. I will defend woman against guys at all costs, I have on more than one occassion ;)
Has she been put into therapy? A chick who continously goes after abusive guys is just as mentally sick as the abusers themselves, and the cycle won't end unless the sickness is healed.

First off again to Kanashuri sorry for misreading, the censored part made me think you said what if she kicked the guy first, I was confused now I reread it again and am like WTF was I thinking

Well you said no matter the circumstances so... ;-*

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pic related as a joke.

Wow dude you truthfully are not even worth responding to as #1 the attack was still going on when I got involved. You might try asking first..

Defending is also different than hitting, you do not need to hit a woman in order to defend yourself..

You're so far off it's actually pretty **** funny, thanks for the laugh :p

I'd block it.

Because beating people up is gay.

I bet grim couldnt beat up anything to save his life. He has the typical LOL IM TOUGH ON THE INTERNET attitude that all 14 year old morons seem to adopt.

I CHANGED MY MIND.

I'd incapacitate her. Sweep, get her in a lock, knock her out if need be. But nothing unnecessary and only to defend myself, any people that might be around me and herself.

Then tie the bitch up so when she wakes up she can't go spac again.

I've decided that this thread kinda fails.

#1 my method as you call it, breaking his bones. I am alot bigger and stronger than the 'normal' person, even when I've tried holding back my punches hit with more force than the normal person.

#2 no cops were called, he went to the hospital and that's the last I heard. With the exception of him stating if he had 'only gotten his gun'..

BTW I'm weaker now than I was then, now I'm 6'3" 245 lbs mostly muscle. I can break a bone w/o trying, even with trying to hold back. When I broke his bones it was nothing more than picking him up off of her and throwing him down. It was very 'minimal'

4 pages? Wow.

Down here in the south beating women isnt a big deal

I remember when I was like the age of 9 or so, and my neighbor's friend came down for a visit. This girl was far more bigger then I was, wow hard to believe right?

Well anyways this girl was around the age of 12, or something of the sort. I can't remember everything from the time, but I do remember her hitting me constantly at times when I was at my neighbors house. Anyways I stuck to the "you should never hit girls" motto, but I wanted to fight back so bad, but choose not to do so.

Anyways I truthfully agree with Philsdad, that if your much smaller and weaker that you should have every right to fight back. I can see the fact of coming to a woman's aid when a man beats her. I would jump for a women who was being beat up, but if some woman just blatantly punches a man multiple times to cause harm, I can see the man fighting back in self defense. I surly would. But that's just saying if this woman is bigger then I am. If she was a small weak woman, I would never think of hitting her back.

I saw a woman getting beatun up last night. Well to be honest we only knew it was a women when we got close and saw bobbies, and he didnt actually see him hit her but he had pinned her down, whilst she screamed, and had marks over her. My group and I were about to try to split this up when a much larger man came to do it for us. He was handling the situation very well actually. Instantly got the guy to get off her through being calm and polite. Well the police we called and I ate my burger.

Gotta keep chicks in line somehow!

Oh yeh and she was pregnent. Maybe he was trying to kill the kid.